u might think this is crazy but start with baby oil add cocoa butter some aloe oil and just a touch of freshly squeezed jalapeno juice. you definitely don’t want toll overdo it here and when you’re finnised try it on some of the less sensitive places on your body working toward the most sensitive then you’ll be ready to have some good times. you can try your favorite fragrances and anything you like just make small batches because you never know how mixing various things will react on your skin. have a good time!!!!!